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Are behavioral issues that your foster child is struggling to outgrow sending you up the wall? Being a resource parent comes with its fair share of challenges, but luckily, you have Kamali’i to provide you and your child with resources to succeed. Below, you’ll find tools you can use to correct problematic behaviors and encourage […]
What connections are most important in your life? What relationships make you feel loved and supported? Does your association with certain communities—like a church or sports team—give you a sense of belonging? Our connections not only define how we relate to the world around us, but they also affect how we see ourselves. That’s why […]
Do you ever find yourself questioning why your child reacts a certain way? Do you become frustrated when they throw a tantrum over something seemingly insignificant or, at other times, seem emotionally distant and withdrawn? Overblown and inappropriate responses can be a source of serious frustration when raising a foster child. It’s easy to be […]
Southern California’s foster children represent a diverse population and come from a variety of different backgrounds. The foster kids who enter your house may have different beliefs, customs, languages, and ways of expressing themselves. To create a supportive home environment where everyone feels that their identity is respected, we’ve created this blog—which includes helpful advice […]
Outings and activities are among the best ways to bond with your resource family! It’s important that kids have the chance to see the world (or at least their neighboring Southern California communities) and learn through firsthand experiences. Exploration provides kids with opportunities for growth and helps them create lifelong memories. If you want to […]
Mental Health Resources for Foster Families in Southern California Imagine what it’d be like to leave everything you know behind and start over somewhere new. This might sound intimidating, scary, and maybe even exciting. Now imagine this happening to you as a child, and that in addition to moving to a new school or neighborhood, […]
Are you worried about what might happen to your foster teen once they reach adulthood? While 18-year-olds might legally be considered adults, they often lack the maturity and life skills necessary to thrive on their own. Most kids at this age either head off to college or continue living at home. Some may even elect […]
So you want to be a resource parent? Great! Resource parenting is one of the most challenging and rewarding journeys you can experience. Every day you have the opportunity to improve a kid’s life. Foster kids deal with many challenges that other children can hardly imagine, but with your love and support they can discover […]
Navigating life’s journey can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially when you can’t always relate to the people around you. This is even truer for children. Growing up is filled with many challenges, and it’s often hard for them to express their feelings or understand the world around them. At Kamalii, we deeply understand this. We believe […]
At Kamali’i, we understand how incredibly difficult it can be to say goodbye to a foster child. It often feels like your time with them passes too quickly, and suddenly, they’re moving on to their next chapter. We see the emotional toll this takes on you, and we want to offer some supportive advice to […]
Understanding legal rights becomes essential at a certain point in foster care. It’s important to be well-informed about the legalities that accompany this process. To support this, we offer a range of resources to enhance your knowledge and empower you with the information needed to navigate these legal complexities effectively. By educating yourself about these […]
As the school year has started, it’s time to prepare for the academic journey ahead. Every parent desires academic success for their children, despite the challenges that may arise. At Kamalii, we are here to offer advice on how to help children transition smoothly into the new school year. In the first few months of […]
*Disclaimer: The Content, information, comments, opinions, advice or guidance, programs and activities do not constitute medical or legal advice and are not intended to be relied upon to cure, diagnose, or treat any mental or physical health condition. We take breaks periodically, but these moments often seem fleeting. While taking a single day off every […]
Movies can be a treasure trove of knowledge and emotional intelligence for children. That’s why it’s so important to encourage kids to watch films that offer valuable life lessons. Kamali’i understands the importance of spending quality time with your children and wants to share five fantastic family-friendly movies. These films will spark discussions about adoption, […]
Opening Up About Mental Health Being a foster parent is challenging, and it’s not talked about enough. The weight of this responsibility can be immense. Here at Kamali’i, we are dedicated to supporting you because we understand how crucial your well-being is to the children in your care. Recognizing mental health issues can be tough. […]
Summer is a wonderful time filled with fun, learning, and bonding opportunities. However, it can also present unique challenges for foster parents who want to ensure their foster children have a memorable and enriching experience. during this vibrant season. Here are ten tips to help foster parents navigate summer with their foster children. Create a […]
Discover Local Farmers Markets Immersing yourself in the local culture and cuisine of the Inland Empire can be a delightful experience at the Riverside Farmers Market or the Redlands Farmers Market. These gatherings are more than just places to shop; they are vibrant events that offer a plethora of fresh, local produce ranging from fruits […]
It’s May! Starting in 1988, the U.S. government proclaimed May the National Awareness Foster Care Month. It is an initiative from the […]
Foster parenting teenagers can be an incredibly rewarding experience, but it’s not without its challenges. Adolescence is a period of rapid change and growth, and foster teens often face additional hurdles due to their unique backgrounds. However, with patience, understanding, and a positive approach, foster parents can create a nurturing environment where teens can thrive. […]
As May unfolds, so does National Foster Care Month, a time to recognize the invaluable contributions of foster families and agencies in providing nurturing homes for children in need. Kamali’i Foster Family Agency stands among these dedicated organizations, a beacon of hope and support for vulnerable children and families. In this blog post, we delve […]
Southern California is a bustling area known for its movies, tech, and diverse cultures. But behind its beauty and progress, there’s a critical need that often goes unnoticed: improving the lives of children in the foster care system. This situation calls for us to advocate and volunteer to help these kids. The foster care […]
As the vibrant colors of spring begin to blossom, it’s time to shed the winter blues and embrace the joyful spirit of the season as a family! At Kamalii, we believe in celebrating the beauty of April and all the wonders it brings. From blooming flowers to chirping birds, there’s no shortage of reasons to […]
In the intricate web of social services, few programs stand as crucial lifelines for transitioning foster youth as the Supervised Independent Living Placement (SILP) program in California. Designed to bridge the gap between foster care and independent adulthood, SILP offers a unique blend of autonomy and support for young adults aged 18 to 21 who […]
Celebrating spring in Southern California offers families an unparalleled opportunity to bond and create lasting memories in the great outdoors. With our mild climate and diverse landscapes, from beaches to mountains, Southern California is a playground for all ages, making it the perfect setting to welcome the season of renewal and growth. Here are 10 […]
In the journey of foster care, we traverse through many paths – some steep and rocky, others smooth and lined with blossoms. But regardless of the terrain, one thing remains constant: the resilience and hope that springs eternal in the hearts of those who open their homes and lives to children in need. Today, let’s […]
February is a month that brims with the spirit of love and togetherness. This time presents a wonderful opportunity for foster families to strengthen bonds and create joyous memories. Here are some heartwarming and engaging activities that can bring your family closer this February, fostering an environment of love, understanding, and connection. 1. Craft a […]
Foster care, a theme often shadowed by misconceptions and overlooked stories, has been beautifully portrayed in various movies over the years. These films shed light on the complexities and challenges of foster care and celebrate the incredible bonds that can form in these unique family settings. Here’s a list of 10 family-friendly movies that bring […]
Foster families play a pivotal role in providing stable and loving environments for children who most need it. In Southern California, a region known for its diversity and warmth, foster families are essential to the community. This guide aims to spotlight the various local resources available to support foster families, highlighting how each service can […]
The holiday season, with its festive spirit and family traditions, can be a particularly poignant time for foster parents and their children. As a foster parent, you embark on a unique journey filled with both joyous moments and unexpected challenges, especially during the holidays. Let’s delve into the complexities and rewards of being a foster […]
Gift-giving can be really overwhelming. Even if you love giving gifts, it can feel like the list of people to purchase gifts for grows each year, and the reality is that can be a strain on our budgets. But giving a meaningful gift to those you love doesn’t have to break the bank and can […]
With the Holidays rapidly approaching, it’s easy to start to panic as a parent! No matter the age of your kids, parenting around the holidays can be tricky. We’re busy with life, we want to make magical moments for our kids and family, we have to meet and navigate extended family expectations, we have to […]
Do you remember being little and marveling at how wide, big, and beautiful the world is? If you’re like us, it’s probably been a long time since you were caught up in any kind of awe at the world we live in. With a neverending news cycle focused on bringing us up-to-date coverage of the […]
It can be really easy to be excited to share our favorite holiday traditions with our kids. Unfortunately, as foster parents, our kids might not have the same enthusiasm for certain holidays or even for celebrating in general as we do. While Halloween is– for most of us– a fun, spooky day of sweets and […]
It’s no secret that reading books to your kids deeply impacts their development. From increased empathy to vocabulary to attention span and brain development, books are an incredible source of education and enjoyment! We rounded up our favorite fall books for kids, and we hope you and your family enjoy each of them! Harvest […]
If you’ve spent any time on the internet or social media, you have probably been inundated with advice about the importance of self-care. The reality is while some of these bits of advice aren’t the greatest, self-care is vital to our well-being, especially as parents and even more so as Foster Parents. Parenting is challenging, […]
Like every parent, we’re sure you are well aware of the plethora of research about the dangers of screen time for your kiddos. Screen time has been shown to cause all sorts of emotional, developmental, social, and physical harm to children. From eye strain to obesity, attention issues to behavioral ones, screen time can sometimes […]
Fostering is full of ups and downs! But really, life is full of ups and downs. Unfortunately, the vast majority of Foster Youth have experienced far more “downs” than “ups” in their short life. Many of these children come from unsafe or traumatic backgrounds and have endured more insecurity and heartache than anyone should in […]
Dear Mom and Dad, Hey there, how are you doing? No, really, how are you doing? We get it, this parenting thing is so hard – harder than maybe you thought. We’ve noticed that sometimes when we talk about the challenges of being a parent, we can only do it in a joking way because […]
The Summer heat has officially arrived in So Cal, and if your kids are anything like ours, that means they’ve probably cooped up in the AC on some screen. And we get it; we don’t feel like doing much when the temps rise, but attached to a device is probably not how we want our […]
Opening your home to a child or multiple children is a huge deal. Deciding to become a Resource Parent involves so many unknowns. One of the biggest challenges can be knowing how to talk to friends and family about the decision to foster. Whether you already have children or want to tell your extended family […]
It hardly bears repeating, but the past three years have been tough for everyone. From Pandemics to political unrest to economic instability, these past few years have felt heavy and overwhelming for all of us, including our kids. While our kiddos haven’t had to bear the responsibility of figuring out how to navigate everything that […]
We all know that parenting is, like, the toughest job out there! Not only do you have to take care of yourself, your home, your job, and maybe a pet or two, but you also have these little humans you’ve got to feed, clothe, educate, and, y’know, generally keep alive! No wonder so many of […]
It takes lots of different kinds of people to keep our world running; people with different skills and jobs, people who look and think differently, and people with different abilities. Diversity is a buzzword we tend to throw around a lot, but all it means is acknowledging that the world is full of lots of […]
May is #NationalFosterCareAwarenessMonth! This month is a great time to spread awareness, celebrate the positive impact that the Foster system provides, and advocate for ways to improve each child’s life. There are 440,000 children currently in the Foster System, with over 100,000 of those children waiting to be adopted. Considering that the current US Population […]
The weather is warming up, and Summer is on it’s way! Most of us have sweet childhood memories of long Summer days spent riding bikes, running through the sprinklers, and rolling down grassy hills. So are you ready to hear something shocking? Today, the average American child spends less time outside than prison inmates. That’s […]
If you’ve hung around on social media for any time, you’ve probably heard the term “Gentle Parenting” thrown around. But unfortunately, there are a lot of misconceptions about what Gentle Parenting means. Based on the name, many assume that it’s a type of parenting that is permissive, passive, or wishy-washy, but this couldn’t be further […]
It’s raining, it’s pouring, and are your kids screaming, “this is boring!” too? As glad as we are that Southern California is getting plenty of much-needed rainwater after years of drought conditions, it’s not so great on keeping your kids occupied inside front! Luckily we’ve compiled a list of fun and easy activities to keep […]
Ah, Spring is almost here! Like most of you, we’re looking forward to warmer weather and more sunshine that Spring brings, and we’re prepping for a good old-fashioned Spring Cleaning! While Spring cleaning might be necessary, it’s not always the most fun thing- especially not with kids! It can be tempting to ship your kids […]
Celebrating Diversity is close to our hearts here at Kamali’i. We genuinely believe that a diverse world is not only a beautiful world but a better one. Over the last few years, it’s been a rollercoaster of emotions as we as a society strive to make the world a more inclusive, equal, and equitable place, […]
It’s that time of year again when stores are decked out in pink and red, hearts are everywhere, and we’re all looking forward to a little extra chocolate. While Valentine’s Day can be a little cheesy, the truth is, we love cheese! Finding ways to celebrate the people you love is especially important in a […]
It takes a special person to become a resource parent. Resource parenting is going to be full of challenges and triumphs, but especially when you start out, there are going to be times when you feel in over your head. An unexpected challenge for many resource parents is being so excited to welcome a child […]
As cozy as Winter has the potential to be, let’s be honest; it can also be a bit of a bummer. While here in SoCal, we’re pretty lucky to experience mild Winter weather, we have been known to get a bit of gloom come January. This year, the powers that be are predicting a fairly […]
It’s hard to believe that another year is almost over, but here we are. Whether this year was wonderful and filled with joyful moments or hard and overwhelming, it’s important to take time to end the year well, reflect on what we learned and how we changed, and look forward to the hope and promise […]
If you ask us, the best thing about December is getting all cozy once the sun goes down and curling up with a good book! And while we know not everyone is a big reader, you have to admit there’s something that feels special about books during the winter months. No matter what the weather […]
Moving into a new home or situation can be traumatic for any child, but especially for the children in the Foster System. More often than not, these kids have been torn away from difficult, painful, and unsafe situations, yet those situations are also familiar. Familiarity gives us a sense of comfort, even if the familiar […]
We all know that practicing gratitude is a good thing. But did you know that it also has the power to impact your health? That’s right! Scientists have discovered that people who regularly practice and express gratitude are better at making and keeping friends, have fewer aches and pains, exercise more often, and sleep better […]
It’s that time of year when most of us get pretty excited. The temperature is dropping, the Holidays are on their way, and you and your kids probably already have all kinds of end-of-the-year fun dancing in your head. Or maybe for you, this time is nothing but stress and anxiety. Never-ending to-do lists, a […]
Halloween is fast approaching, and we know how excited your kiddos are. However, we also know you’re probably dreading the candy craze! As much as we love seeing our kid’s faces light up at those overflowing bags of bite-size (and if they’re lucky, full-size) treats, we also know it can make them go a little… […]
October is just around the corner, meaning Spooky Season is almost here! There’s nothing better than cozying under a blanket with a bowl of popcorn and watching a spooky movie, but not all spooky movies are the most kid-friendly! We did the hard work for you and found (in our humble opinion) the best Halloween […]
There’s something special about sibling relationships. Siblings are often our first friends, our greatest confidants, riding through the storms of life with us and teaching us so much about conflict and love. When a child faces trauma or upheaval in their life, they feel comfortable knowing their brothers or sisters are right there with them. […]
Sometimes it seems like our kids are just trying to make it to the next snack time, right? We’ve all picked up our kids from school and immediately heard them beg for a snack or to hit up a drive-thru, all before they’ve even got in the car. Dealing with “hangry” kids is always challenging; […]
August is often called the “Sunday of summer.” This is because Sundays mark the end of a long weekend; it’s the day when we need to prepare for school, work, or the productive routines that take up most of our weekdays. In other words, Sunday–and August–can feel like a bummer…but it doesn’t have to be […]
Happy August! Let’s set the scene, shall we? The heat is unbearable, the kids go back to school soon, and if you listen closely, you can hear your kids wandering through the house crying, “I’m bored.” If this sounds like your house, we feel you. The end of summer is always challenging. Some kids are […]
Ah, summer. The season of warm nights under the stars, sunny days in the sand, popsicles, and pool days. And summer camps, playdates, family vacations, birthday parties, back-to-school planning, hot temperatures, and hot tempers. Unfortunately, as a parent, sometimes summer feels more like a never-ending to-do list and less like a season of fun in […]
Thinking about what habits to start with the family this summer? You have a lot to choose from to get started! No matter what works best for the family, it’s guaranteed that it will positively impact both you and the kids and encourage more intentionality in your everyday life. We know summer is the time […]
Do you know what kids are thinking about when National Great Outdoors Month, aka June, comes right around the corner? The freedom to have fun for a whole summer! As a family, June is a great time to consider how you plan on spending the next couple of months before the kids go back to […]
This May, think of how to inspire confidence in your teen for National Teen Self-Esteem Month! When you look back on your days as a teenager, what do you remember most? For most of us either smile sheepishly at our past actions or sigh, knowing we could have made a better or mature decision at […]
We got you covered on how to show your support for Foster Care Awareness Month this year. In celebration and honor of May, we want to take this opportunity to recommend ways you can become an ally for the foster parents, children, and community dedicated to improving the lives of children. More often than not, […]
Almost exactly three years ago, we published a blog article about providing your child with structure as they (and you) learn and navigate through the foster care system. Foster care at its core can be unpredictable; and after the past two years of intense changes and unpredictability, we thought this blog article needed a little […]
For April–a season spring of cleaning and flowers blooming–why not learn how to garden and take care of plants with your kids? It never hurts to get out of the house more to spend time in the great outdoors, breathe in the fresh air, and soak up some sunlight. Why should we garden with our […]
Connecting with your kids – biological or not – can be tough sometimes! We get it; kids are always changing and in their early years, it seems like they grow up in a flash, right before your eyes. What was their favorite food one day they can’t stomach the next, and it seems like their […]
Did you know that March is National Craft Month? If you have a child who loves being artistic or is curious about getting started, this is the perfect time to encourage them to try! Who knows? Maybe, crafting might become one of their lifelong hobbies or turn into a family tradition of some kind. Whatever […]
Let’s face the music – not everyone enjoys eating their veggies, especially kids. Even as adults, the thought of a steaming heap of veg on your plate when you wish you could dig into an entire pan of brownies can kind of ruin your day. Unfortunately, vegetables are an essential part of a healthy diet […]
We don’t know about you, but we love a good podcast. Sometimes a long drive needs to be broken up with something other than music, and a 15 minute walk can feel like 5 when your favorite podcast is playing in your ears. Whatever reason you joined the podcast fan-club, we have a treat for […]
Kindness! An eight-letter word that it seems like everyone could use a lot more of nowadays. In the dictionary (Oxford, to be exact) kindness is a noun that means: the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. The world seems to be a much more enjoyable place when there are more kind people in it, […]
Ah, the new year! We are all beyond excited to say hello to 2022. Holidays and the new year all seem to bring everyone together in some truly sweet and heartwarming ways, and also provide the perfect window for growth; in practically any way you could imagine. The classic New Year’s resolution is a perfect […]
The same narrative comes around before the start of every new year: “For my new year’s resolution, I’m going to…, etc..”–with good reason! We all want to be better people, accomplish our goals, and keep or develop meaningful relationships in our lives, but we know that all of the above cannot come without intentional effort […]
Whether you have one family tradition or more than you can count in a year, you can always use one more! Out of all the seasons in the year, the best time to start a family tradition is around the holidays! Traditions are a great event that can uplift the overall experience of a certain […]
All holidays are special in their own right, and Thanksgiving is no different. Today, we happily follow the old-time tradition of sharing an autumn harvest feast with others, like the Plymouth colonists and Wampanoag Indians in 1621, by coming together with family and friends to enjoy a delicious meal–most of the time, with turkey, and […]
Are you looking to care for a child but don’t know how to become a Resource Parent at Kamali’i? We’re here to help you get started and support you every step of the way. We want to start by saying that you are 100% capable of becoming a Resource Parent. Raising a child is one […]
Practicing emotional wellness and approaching emotions in a healthy manner is always a challenge no matter the stage in our life, such as aging out of a foster care agency or, more specifically, Riverside foster care or San Diego foster agencies–but it’s a journey that is always worth the fight. As human beings, it’s natural […]
Fundraising and spreading awareness for foster care agencies can be a challenge; it takes trial and error to successfully engage others or persuade them to make donations, but bringing attention to the stories and struggles of foster youth is always worth the extra effort! When you need the community’s help to support your foster care […]
In honor of National Reading Month, Kamali’i put together a list of National Reading book recommendations to read with your child. Upon the first impression, children’s books may come across as simple stories, but they can be the most impactful resources that introduce your child to the world today and positively affect them for the […]
Self-improvement is the deliberate action to better yourself as a human being in every aspect of your life; what’s more, tackling how to talk about self-improvement with your child is also a challenge worth taking. But no matter your age, there’s always room to make an effort for self-improvement because it dictates our overall quality […]
Kids are sometimes the pickiest eaters. Healthy meals prepared with a bit more love have the power to curb cravings that your kids may have for junk food too! But eating healthy doesn’t mean you have to stick to bland recipes. All you need are the right ingredients, preparation methods, and some imagination–as well as […]
It’s that exciting time of the year again where your child moves onto the next grade to make new friends and memories–as well as take on different challenges! As a parent, we can support our children during this stage of their life by providing them with the resources they need to succeed. Check out these […]
In addition to helping children grow up in nurturing environments with loving resource families, Kamali’i Foster Family Agency prioritizes preparing them for life once they age out of the system with the assistance of an Independent Living Program (ILP). ILP is an authorized program created by the Foster Care Independence Act of 1999 (Public Law […]
Summer is one of the best times of the year for many reasons: the sun is always shining, school is out, and all that’s left on a to-do list is to have fun in the fresh air! Although classes are put on pause for three months, summer can also enrich children and improve their overall […]
You can never show your children enough love as a parent, and one of the best ways to show it is by giving them positive affirmations. Words are powerful: they significantly impact anyone’s self-esteem, self-image, and overall well-being–especially during childhood. They also shape the narratives we come to believe about ourselves. Words have the power […]
A new month is upon us, and you know what that means: we have another list of national holidays to spend with your kids this June! Every month, there’s always the opportunity to bond with your family in new ways that are fun for everyone. But what makes June special is the fact that school’s […]
When was the last time you listened to what someone was saying? Not just heard – but truly listened? We hear things every day, and many things go in one ear and out the other, but the power of active listening is unmatched in the field of communication. It is one of the most useful […]
Got a family of Star Wars nerds? Maybe just one or two of them? Whatever the case — May the 4th is fast approaching, and Star Wars lovers should be ready to experience the magic. If you have some Star Wars fans in your household, here are FOUR out-of-this-world ways to help them celebrate their […]
April Fool’s Day only comes once a year, but pranks can be fun for the whole family all 365 days! Keeping the pranks family-friendly and harmless, but hilarious is the perfect way to get the whole family involved in making jokes and having a blast. Remember to keep the pranks balanced between the parents and […]
Every state does Resource Parenting a little differently, and California has its own rules, regulations, and requirements regarding what it takes to become a Resource Parent. If you’re considering embarking on the incredible journey of becoming a Resource Parent, we are here to help you through the process. The first step is knowing the basic […]
With St. Patrick’s Day coming up fast, we wanted to make sure you’ll have some green in your life before you get pinched. We’ve compiled all of our favorite recipes in one place (links included) so you and your family can celebrate March’s only holiday however you see fit! 1. Corned Beef and Cabbage You […]
We post a lot about national days on social media, and now we are going to tell you how we celebrate them! There are so many fun national days you can celebrate with your family… some of them we don’t post about, but may still be special to you. Here are our favorite national days […]
When it comes to change, it can be scary for everyone. A big move, a new job, or even a dynamic shift can throw off everything; especially for those with a fear of change. We are here to tell you to embrace that change! To throw yourself towards it with full force. Even change that […]
Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to show your children a little extra love! Whether it’s your biological or your foster children, they could all benefit from a sweet gift, some quality time, extra cuddles, or an extra “I love you” before bedtime! Here are a few sweet ideas on how to make sure your […]
Between temper tantrums, sibling rivalry, and academic issues, parenting can be one tough gig. It can be even tougher when there is uncertainty amongst power dynamics when foster children come into the mix. You might be fully comfortable with sending your biological child to their room for a time out and a stern talking to, […]
Being a parent is definitely a lot of work, and being a resource parent is a whole other ball game. We know how difficult it can be, and how hard you work every single day to change your children’s lives for the better. If you’re looking for ways to brighten up your family’s lives and […]
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